I have written 10 rules about relationships and want to post the first 4 of them. I want to share my experience, and I would be very glad if it helps you! Please let me know what you think.

2022.01.20 08:30 vadymlazariev I have written 10 rules about relationships and want to post the first 4 of them. I want to share my experience, and I would be very glad if it helps you! Please let me know what you think.

Hello there guys, I have been going through some hard episodes in my life after the breakup. And I want to share my thoughts about relationships according to my experience. I would like to hear your thoughts about it. I’m open to critics and suggestions. If you find my thoughts helpful, I will be glad! First of all, I’m 23 years old guy, that has never been in a relationship and was always the ‘nice guy’. But last August I had short-term relationships that lead me to therapy, depression, and Zoloft consumption. I won’t dig deep into this. I will just share my experience that I understood after all my experience with women and relationships. I left TL;DR. If you don’t want to read a long post. So let’s go! 1. If she friend zones you/rejects but still contacts you - walk away
First of all, don’t be emotional about that, I know it is painful, I know that you are suffering. But sometimes people do things just because they do things and it is not necessary to understand what happened. The best thing that you can do in that situation is to describe your boundaries and emotions to that person and say this kind of relationship won’t work for you. Accept the rejection as a fact and walk away. Talking from my experience I can say that, there is nothing more humiliating for a man rather than being a friend for a person that you love. Ask yourself whether you are ready to be friends with her boyfriend? Would you go as a witness to her wedding and see that she is happy with someone else? Can you stand her Instagram posts with her boyfriend or listen about the perfect sex they have? I think you already have an answer. I know that you need to sacrifice a friendship with a person you love, I did it and it was freaking painful, but the friend zone is a burden that you will never ever throw off oneself. On top of that, the woman that loves you and is interested in you will always appreciate you and never put you under painful circumstances. She just wants your attention. She has power over you and your emotions and you allowed her to have this power, that’s a bitter pill to swallow. Don’t give it to her, be the winner in this situation, and don’t allow somebody to have control over you. Walk away.

  1. Never eat breadcrumbs if you can have the loaf of bread
For example, you opened your feeling for a person you love and this person didn’t respond in the same way. You walked away and started minding your own business, and after some time she comes back and asks you for a walk/chat/date or whatever. And here I would like to say - know your worth. You gave her a chance to be with you, and she understood your worth only when you walked away. I consider this as a red flag, and please don’t allow her to come back from the past. If her words don’t sound like: “I’m sorry, I made you feel bad. What can I do, to make our relationship work ?” never even listen to her and try to understand what she wants. She just wants your attention, and nothing else. All thoughts that you have like: “She changed”, “I will give her a chance” all of these words are fake hope and your mind plays games with you because she is an already known path and it is much easier to have dopamine from communication with her rather than make some effort and find someone else better. So please never allow her to come back. Ask yourself if you want to feel all this emotional rollercoaster again? Would you give a chance to a person that made you feel bad and played with your emotions? Answer these questions first for yourself and you will do the right choice. Be strong - right choices will always give you pain, but it is a pain of your growth and maturity, it is a pity, but there is no other way.
  1. The result that happened in the process of truth, can't be wrong
Sometimes we have situations when the relationship didn’t work out for some reason, or you were dumped or rejected. Believe me, when something happens - it happens for some reason, and when you were yourself and were telling the truth that means that nothing went wrong. You loved, you felt that you acted within your feelings and it is great. Please do not blame yourself for things that you could do better, or you didn’t do, the person that was into you will always stay with you no matter what. You can buy the best present, tell the best words to a person you love, but if she is not into you it won’t work. But the truth matters, and if you were truthful, you have nothing to blame yourself for.
  1. Nobody in this world worth chasing
It is very simple. The person that loves you and respects you will never play a hard-to-get game. No means no, and never believe that no - means yes or she wants to test your persistence, if she is interested in you, she will find, time, place, motivation to be with you no matter what. Please put yourself first and don’t allow these mind games towards yourself. There is nothing more unattractive than a man who is needy, while you are chasing her and trying your hardest, she will have sex with some guys that she is interested in. How do you feel while you were reading this? Painful, right? And it is painful even in imagination, it will be 10000 times more painful in real life, don’t allow it to become the real case. Things went wrong when you start chasing. Have self-respect and cut her from your life forever. People who don’t respect you will never respect you again, that’s hard but it is true. Move on.

TL;DR 1. If she friend zones you/rejects but still contacts you - walk away
  1. Never eat breadcrumbs if you can have the loaf of bread
  2. The result that happened in the process of truth, can't be wrong
  3. Nobody in this world worth chasing
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I make sure my plant is standing a few meters from the window, so no direct sunlight, no cold wind, temperature is always around 22 celcius. I bought a humidifier which I placed right next to the plant, humidity is round 50%. I spray it now and then with water for extra humidity. I water it once a week, make sure the water runs through the draining holes. However, I have a feeling that the plant is not taking up the water or something, since the leaves look really dried out, but the soil is still moist, even after a week it doesnt seem to dry up that much. I tried waiting longer before watering, but then the stems started to fall over (even without dry soil). Checked the roots, but they seem fine. Also checked for bugs, but that doesn't seem to be the case. I have no idea what is wrong with my plant...It sprouted 2 new stems now, but 1 of them already got a dried out/ damaged small baby leaf :(, the other one looks fine for now.
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If you're looking for an exciting world to explore and a safe place to build your biggest ideas ever, or if you just want to live as a quiet wart and goat farmer, you can do that too. You don't have to be some grand wizard of Minecraft to play in our world but the server is set to hard mode so it helps. It's a vanilla server with no plugins so no /tp or land claim or anything like that so it can be a bit intimidating at first but stick around for a while and you'll find it's a decent community with many interesting people from around the world who love this game as much as you do.
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griefers and hackers get banned quickly
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After a couple of more tries I noticed that the board at random times makes an odd clicking noise just before resetting. The print is then just stopped obviously.
The sound seems to come from the area circled on the added picture.
I should add that it might be from near the image and not exactly inside, it is a bit difficult to locate.
I've calibrated pretty much everything I could and everything works until it just clicks a few times and then resets.
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Perhaps also important to know that nothing gets hot. The motors get warm, still touchable. The board doesn't get warm at all, stepper drivers neither. Well the hot end and the bed do get hot, obviously. :D
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